Mamas: Know your baby’s care options too

Posted by Genevieve Hinson On January - 13 - 2010ADD COMMENTS

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Growing up in the Valley, I’ve always known, and taken for granted, that Children’s Hospital Central California (formerly Valley Children’s Hospital) was the best place for kids with serious, or emergency, health conditions.

With the birth of my oldest son 16-years ago, I was comforted by the fact Children’s was just down the road. If anything happened to Jay, they’d take care of him. Heck, I could even piggyback him there if needed.
It wasn’t until I accepted a position at Children’s Hospital a couple of weeks ago, as their social media coordinator, that I started understanding the full scope of what they do.

And I mean I’m just starting. I realize this is going to sound like a big commercial, but these folks are amazing. Simply. Amazing.

Don’t worry. I’m not going to overload you with info too. However, I do want to share what I WISH I knew last year when I was pregnant and battling preeclampsia. Because of the early onset and severity of my condition, I was very aware of the high risk – certainty — that my daughter would be delivered early. Too early.

What I didn’t realize was I had options in choosing a hospital for Bella’s NICU stay. If I did, and was made aware of how safe transport was, I definitely would’ve asked for Children’s.

After working here a week, taking a tour of the NICU and learning about Children’s long history and success rates, I would’ve demanded it.

Want to know what gets me the most? I could’ve roomed with my daughter for her 14-day stay. That’s right, roomed with her around the clock. There are private NICU rooms available here with a pull-out bed for mom (or dad), a private bathroom and storage.

Instead of that more natural scenario: I commuted and hunted for a parking spot daily (a real pain) to visit my daughter while recovering from a c-section. I don’t even want to talk about the stress of separation and that little rush-hour fender bender on the way home one night.

Yeah, so biggest lesson learned: KNOW all your options for both you and the baby, even if you never need them.

It wouldn’t hurt to include some ‘just-in-case’ choices to your birth plan too.

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Star Crossed: Teen novel series goes astro

Posted by Genevieve Hinson On January - 1 - 2010ADD COMMENTS

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“No one need fear the stars. They don’t limit our destiny, only point out possibilities. Indeed, the stars, the planets, and the very study of the zodiac can transform our lives.”

—Fearless Astrology

Logan McRae is an ordinary high school girl who wants to change her sucky life until she finds an old astrology book. In “Aries Rising,” the first of the new Star Crossed series, Bonnie Hearn Hill combines astrology with a page-turning tale of a teen on a mission. “Aries Rising” will publish in March, and the next two books in the series, “Taurus Eyes” and “Gemini Night,” will publish in May and August.

These are the first young adult novels for Bonnie, who is the author of six thrillers for MIRA Books.

So why write for teens?

“Because it was the best way to tell the story,” Bonnie says. “And that’s all it was, at first, just a story I wanted to tell, not a series. It wasn’t even set at the beach originally.”

We’re sitting at the narrow glass and chrome table overlooking Bonnie’s patio and monster bush of purple sage. It’s the same table where she meets with her weekly critique group.

“The idea came to me right here,” she says and points at the expansive windows. “We often channel ideas for each other, and Hazel channeled this one. I had never even considered writing young adult, let alone astrology.”

Hazel Dixon-Cooper began as a student in Bonnie’s writing class then became her closest friend. After four years in the class, she received what’s politely referred to as a six-figure deal for two humorous astrology books.

“She’s amazing,” Bonnie says. “Outrageous and hilarious. The first time we had lunch, she opened her mouth, and funny fell out. I said, ‘Hazel, if you can get that mouth on paper, you will make a fortune.’ She did, and she has.”

For the last six years, Hazel has been the Cosmopolitan magazine astrologer.

“One day we were talking at this table, and Hazel was figuring out the signs of characters. Hamlet was a Libra. Santa was a Sadge.”

“Hazel, those are novel titles,” Bonnie said.

Several hours later, Bonnie had an idea for a book called “Frankenstein Was a Taurus.” (She later changed it to “Aries Rising”.)

Although other novels featured astrology, Bonnie hadn’t heard of any targeted to teens and including extensive astrology information.

“It seemed like a perfect blend,” she says. “As Logan learns about each sign, so does the reader.”

And so did I. Not sure how I feel about being a work-driven Capricorn, but for the first time, I’ve started getting Moon signs. Hey, I might write my own book.

After writing thrillers, how did you shift into young adult gear?

It was one of the easiest transitions I’ve ever made. Now, getting into the head of a killer—that was no fun. I’m a kid at heart, a double Gemini, and teen emotions are universal. Can’t you remember how it felt to fall in love for the first time? To twist in the wind over a guy? To wish there were some way you could change your life? I just tapped into that. Once I wrote the first book, I knew I wanted to write more. Then the second book, which has a ghost in it, started talking to me.

Was it difficult to sell the book/series since you were not established in the teen market?

My agent sent me a ton of young adult books she had represented. I studied them for several months, wrote my first draft and sent it to her. Have I mentioned that she’s the best agent on the planet? Hard-working Taurus, loyal and nurturing. I give thanks every day that she’s in my life.

How long did it take to sell?

Since I hadn’t written YA, I had to finish the first novel the way any first-time author would. My agent sold it in less than three weeks. If you believe in coincidence, which I don’t, it just so happens that the editor who bought it is an Aquarius, the same as Logan.

What message do you want teens to take from “Aries Rising”?

That you can take control of your life and go after what you want. Your parents, your teachers, your guy, the zodiac—no one, nothing can do it for you. My editor told me she was attracted to the book because Logan and her two BFFs are loyal to each other. Chili is a beautiful, talkative Gemini from a wealthy Armenian family with a hands-on mom, while Logan’s mom is a golf pro who is never home. Paige is a shy Pisces who wants to be a fashion designer. But together, these girls are a team

You’ve mentored many writers. What advice would you give to someone who wants to write YA?

Think series, not book.

The biggest glitch I’ve always seen in YA is what I call Wise Parent Syndrome. These novels are about and for teens. Parents are supporting characters, not stars.

Finally, quitting isn’t an option. Write and keep writing. Never give up.

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The holidays can be very difficult for children with disabilities.  Changes in their routine, both at home and at school and unexpected family and friends coming for visits can be the cause of stress and anxiety.  Many children may not cope well in these chaotic social situations that can occur around the holidays. The excitement and heightened activities can cause confusion and upset.

Over my many years of working with severe behaviors, I have created a list of strategies to help families help their children survive and enjoy the holidays.

1. A great way to start is with videos and books that describe the upcoming holidays in fun and entertaining ways. Some may even use favored characters that your child may relate to! Homemade social stories that include photographs of friends, family members or people you want to familiarize your child with, participating in previous holiday festivities are another great way to help them prepare for upcoming events.  Using videos of past holidays that include friends and family are a great way to help them remember all the fun everyone had.  Starting the month before the actual holiday will give you plenty of time to discover what activities may cause an upset and help you make preparations accordingly.  Getting friends, neighbors or relatives to help role play or practice the celebration ahead of time can be fun as well as helpful.

2. Picking out costumes of favorite characters or that you know will be comfortable to wear, like pajamas, can be put on multiple times before the actual day so they become familiar and give you time to make modifications if you need to!

3. Putting a big calendar, that you can write on, up on a door or wall and that is easily accessible to everyone in the family can help keep everyone organized as well as prepare your child for upcoming events.  Make sure you write regular activities as well as special activities down on it as soon as you know they are happening.  This would include parties at school, no-school days, shopping days, when company is coming, when school is starting again, etc.  Make it part of your daily routine to review the next day’s activities before bedtime and if possible, have your child help cross off the days as they go along.  This is a great time to review what they did that day, how much fun they had and what to expect with the upcoming activities as well.

4. If possible have your child help with preparations for the upcoming event. Picking out costumes or special clothing, wrapping gifts, decorating, help with food preparation and helping to plan some of the activities may help reduce anxiety.

5. Make a list of the different activities that will happen during the event and who will be coming. Discuss this ahead of time with your child so they will be well prepared.  Have them help you make a separate list of favorite activities that you know they will enjoy doing.  If you need to, you can even plan when your child can do the favorite activities so they will be evenly spaced throughout the whole event.  It may help to have a quiet place to go to relax if they become overwhelmed with the noise and confusion of the party. A special corner or room would work. In it, place some favorite reading materials, quiet puzzles, maybe a set of headphones with their favorite music to listen to. A timer in the quiet area can help them prepare for their transition back to the event.  You can remind them that when it rings, they will need to rejoin the party.

6. Get excited. Have fun! Even for events like Halloween, your child may only be able to go to one house but praise and celebrate their accomplishment! This will help them feel more positive about the next event.  Take lots of pictures and videos. These can be used to make a new memory book that can help you and your child prepare for next year!

Victoria Dalool, M.A., is a Clinical Director for Pacific Child and Family. For more information about Pacific Child and family, visit their web site here.

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9 months of wonder & joy

Posted by Genevieve Hinson On December - 9 - 20094 COMMENTS

Kids in May

9 months old today!

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Tantrum Tuesday: Tragic & Dramatic

Posted by Genevieve Hinson On November - 24 - 20094 COMMENTS

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Hit the dog? No “Nemo” for you. This adorable, squinchy-faced little dude was submitted by OhByDod! — You can find more of her stunning and gorgeous photos here.

Hey, it’s her party … she can, well you know. Love this mini-diva birthday cake meltdown.

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